If you do come across desperate or needy , double texting them or constantly asking to meet up , it will completely destroy any chance you have at a connection .
It's ok to shoot your shot .
But remember to not waste your time , instead use a more indirect approach like chad when he scheduled the date and subtly mentioned his plans with other female friends .
He employed a sneaky manipulation tactic called triangulation .
And this is where things really start heating up .
We're social animals , right ?
We can't help but be influenced by what others want .
It's psychology 101 .
I bet my granny's knickers that if a woman heard that her romantic interest was hanging out with attractive girls , she will feel threatened .
It's about desire and competition .
Two things wired deep into our psyche when you are seen with or mention another person that they see as a threat .
It immediately creates a competitive spark and the need to hang on even more time .