Woman Mistreated By Mother-In-Law, Watch What Happens Next

And he's going to realize that he needs a woman like Lucy in his life .

Not you .

That's enough to Celia .

Wow .

What are you newlyweds going to do with all this space ?

Could I have some kids running around here ?

Sin .

We talked about this .

I know , I know .

I know you're not ready yet .

Whatever , you'll change your mind soon .

I'm sure .

Oh , good morning , good morning .

You know , when I was growing up , my mother taught me , it's really important to wake up early and have breakfast waiting for the family .

Do they not teach you that in your country ?

And about that desk job of yours ?

I'm not so sure you're going to be able to balance everything .

Being a wife and mother is not to be taken lightly .

Cecilia and balancing everything just fine .

I've worked hard to get to where I am today besides Anne and I are not ready to have a child .

Leah .

It's not a request if you don't give my son a child soon .

I know plenty of conventionally beautiful and young women who will , is that clear ?

Sorry about my mom .

I know she can be a lot .

It's Ok .

Thanks for saying that .

Of course .

And uh , yeah , I want you to know that I meant what I said earlier .

Ok , I'm , I'm perfectly happy with or without a child , whatever we decide .

Ok .

I think you will both discover that marriage can only reach its true purpose .

When you raise a family .

Mom .

Can we , I really think you should reconsider , can we not do this right now ?

Ok .

Look , there's something I've been wanting to talk to you about .

I've been feeling really lonely , living alone and now that you've got this big house , I was just thinking maybe I could stay here .

I mean , that's , uh , I'm surely , I would understand right here .

Look , I'm happy for your mom to stay with us .

I just , I think we need to set some ground rules .

I think , I think she's just , you know , she needs some time to adjust .

I mean , you know how hard my dad's passing has been on her .

Well , she kind of told me that if I don't have a child with you , she would set you up with someone else .

Yeah .

What ?

No , I mean , she wouldn't say something like that .

Would she ?

Not , never mind , forget I said anything .

Oh , come here quick .

Lucy .

Oh , my gosh .

It's , it's been forever .

It has .

Oh , sorry .

Uh , Leah , this is , this is Lucy .

She was my neighbor growing up .

Hi , I'm Leah .

Nice to meet you .

Hi .

And , uh , Lucy .

What ?

What brings you out this way ?

Oh , your sweet mom called me .

She said you just moved in and needed help running some errands and didn't want to bother you too .

Lucy is a sweetheart .

She has helped me so much over this past year .

I mean , honestly , I don't know what I would have done without you .

How come you're not swooped up yet ?

You're beautiful .

You're smart from a good background .

You are too kind , Cecilia .

All right , I'm heading out .

You guys have a lovely celebration .

Happy birthday , Ian .

Thank you , Lucy .

Please join us .

Leah , would you please pour a glass of wine ?

This is perfect char .

Oh , I almost forgot .

I , I got something for you .

You shouldn't have .

Thank you .

Feels like just yesterday I got you the Food Fighters cassette for your 13th birthday .

Yeah , that's right .

That was uh that was the first cassette I ever got I Yeah .

Ok .

Open it .

I was literally just telling Leah how much I wanted this exact model .

Oh , yeah .

Your mom told me .

Sorry , please .

Excuse me .

So I didn't forget about your present .

Ok , I just figured I , I wanna tell you when we're alone , you know , um let's have a baby .

But yeah , I mean , I thought you said I know I just , I changed my mind .

Would that make you happy ?

If I mean , if that's what you really want then then yes , absolutely .

I love you .

I love you too .

It's like I told you , you should have taken time off from work .

Maybe we would have had a baby right now .

That was alive and healthy and with your genes , this might have been your only shot .

That's enough Cecilia .

I am sick of you trying to make me feel inferior .

Please just leave me .

Mark my words , Leah .

Any man will leave a woman who will not give him a baby and let me tell you something else .

My son's infatuation with your exotic looks will soon fade .

And he's going to realize that he needs a woman like Lucy in his life .

Not you .

Mom .

Stop .

And here I was defending you all this time .

I honestly thought you were better than this .

I guess that was my mistake though .

Mum , we just lost a child .

Are you even hearing yourself right now ?

And I'm never gonna leave le aside .

OK , mom , I love her .

You need to get that through your head .

Honestly , I think it's time you pack your bags and leave us be when you enter into a serious relationship with a partner , it can be easy to assume that you're entering into a life with only that person .

But with every partner comes their social network as well , whether that is friends , family or colleagues .

And although it is common to have differences of opinion with your partner's circle , sometimes you may have experienced something even more challenging like your partner's loved ones .

Disrespecting , pressurizing or even manipulating you to change your beliefs and values .

Here are three steps you can take if you find yourself in this situation .

Number one , make sure you and your partner are on the same page .

Have you both decided to wait to have Children or not have Children at all ?

Have you set clear expectations regarding each other's career paths ?

Make a list of the things that matter to both of you and then make sure that your timelines are agreed upon and clear .

And while it's important to keep both sides happy in any relationship , make sure that you're staying true to yourself and not giving up your belief system out of an attempt to make your partner's circle happy .

Number two , have a conversation with your partner about how their loved one is making you feel while it is important to be sensitive to your partner's relationships with their loved ones .

It is equally important to be clear about the unhealthy behaviors and their effect on you because they may have grown up with this person .

They may have trouble seeing and accepting this person in a different light .

Number three , approach , your partner's loved one about how their behavior is affecting you .

It may be helpful to have your partner there as well .

Be honest , be calm and direct if they push back , stand up for yourself and hold your ground .

But with balance , while a parent or in-law might want grandchildren or a friend may have an opinion about the division of labor in your house or how you handle your finances .

Those are personal decisions for you and your partner to make together .

And remember while it can be tempting to want to please your partner's loved ones , it is never worth giving up your principles .

As a result .

At the end of the day , it is your values that make you who you are and a partner who truly loves and cares for .

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Well , she's fun .

She's stress free .

I'm like you .

How are you blaming me ?

You're the one who cheated .