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You might not want to know this , but you could be destroying your own relationship without even realizing it .

There are five signs proven by psychology that can predict the downfall of a relationship .

Ignoring these signs might lead you down a path of regret and loss .

The last one can completely destroy your life instantly .

One , if you look for ways out of your relationship , even if you're happy , it's a sign you're afraid of commitment .

This fear shows itself as avoiding any significant milestones that deepen the bond , like meeting their parents or moving in together .

It's the psychological concept of avoidance coping where you're indirectly sabotaging the relationship to protect yourself from potential future pain , an easy way out seems safe , but it's actually a fast track to loneliness to the breakup pattern .

Ever wonder why some people hop from one relationship to another .

Never quite settling down .

That's serial dating .

A clear indicator of relationship , self sabotage .

Psychologically , it's linked to a deep rooted fear of intimacy .

You might find the smallest flaw and blow it out of proportion as an excuse to escape , avoiding true connection , man .

Her nose is just a bit too big might sound trivial , but it's often a defense mechanism to prevent getting too close .

Three jealousy and low self esteem are like a poisonous cocktail for any relationship .

If you're always comparing yourself to others and feeling like you don't measure up that insecurity can drive you to irrational jealousy .

It stems from the comparison theory in psychology where constantly measuring your worth against others leads to resentment and distrust in a relationship .

Ironically , the fear of losing your partner to someone better can be the very thing that drives them away for holding grudges .

Forgiveness is the oil that keeps the relationship machine running slow .

If you're holding on to grudges , you're letting the past dictate your future .

Psychologically , this behavior is linked to rumination , a pattern of negative repetitive thinking that hampers emotional healing and forgiveness .

It's like locking your relationship in a dark room from which it can't escape .

The key to a healthy relationship is letting go of past hurts and looking forward to building a brighter future together .

Find the illusion of perfection , convince yourself that your relationship is perfect by avoiding confrontation is a direct route to its downfall .

This avoidance strategy is often a defense mechanism against the fear of conflict .

But it's essentially like ignoring a ticking time bomb .

Psychologically , it's linked to conflict avoidance where you sacrifice genuine connection and growth for the sake of temporary peace .

Real relationships require facing issues head on , not hiding from them in a perfect Facade .