Dance Tips for Men _ Bachata Dance

But for men .

So man , I'm gonna give you some tips for your social dancing .

The first one is how to ask the ladies to dance , you know how to deal with rejection .

So the first thing is you're gonna gracefully ask for the ladies with your palm face up .

She accepts , you're ready to go .

If she says no , gentlemen , you gracefully walk away , try not to really be persistent on the ladies .

They sometimes have too many dances and they just wanna relax .

So we have to be respectful about that .

Second thing is gentlemen , we are here to support them and to see that they look the best they can so that they can get dances with the other people , right ?

So they try not to be the kind of guy who overpowers the girl or shows off , for example , you're dancing and you're over here , not even looking at her eyes showing off all your moves while she's there , just you know what's going on .

So gentlemen , make sure you take time to connect to the lady , make sure that every dance is a story you're connecting here , you're smiling at her , she's smiling at you you're looking at something together , you're looking at each other , you're looking around together , everything you do , make sure that she shines and you're there to support unless you let each other go , which is a good moment for you to then you know , show off some of your steps .

So the first thing is when we're dancing , we're always looking at the ladies .

If she looks comfortable , she smiles , if she's uncomfortable , she doesn't smile .

So we have to make sure that we see what's going on .

Maybe we're too close , maybe we're too far , maybe she's doing the same move over and over .

So give her something that she can work with .

Gentlemen , make sure that she's turning .

You let her take her time to turn , try not to rush the lady .

So she's doing a slow turn , you watch her , let her go around .

So it's all about making her look good .

Try not to do too many tricks or too many moves while the ladies are doing their moves .

All right , the last thing gentlemen is to avoid being the kind of guys who give the ladies multiple turns .

56 turns in Bachata .

That's too much and for the ladies and that's for other dancers .

So make sure that the ladies always feel comfortable with everything you're giving them .

So if you're giving them one turn , she smiles , she likes it .

That means you can do it again or do something else .

Gentlemen also be careful not to show off too much , you know , make sure you're not connected to anyone else on the dance floor .

But your partner and the last thing gentlemen with that in mind , try to always make sure to stay away from the bathroom list .

The ladies have a list of all the guys that you shouldn't dance with and I , I'm not supposed to tell you this , but don't be on that list , right ?

Just make her look good and you're safe and those are the test for men .