You are asking the wrong questions here is why using reverse psychology is the easiest way to get what you want .
You do this by changing how you ask for favors .
Instead of framing your questions to get a yes response , frame them to get a no response .
Think about this example instead of asking someone , can I talk to you for a minute ?
You say it is now a bad time .
Both of these questions result in the same thing but saying yes is much harder than saying no making people feel as if they are committing to something , if they agree to your request .