How To Switch From Masculine Energy To Feminine Energy

Hello there ladies , this is Sammy Wonder you , fiercely successful , fiercely loved dating and relationship coach and feminine energy mentor for the smart , successful , ambitious woman who doesn't want just an amazing career , but also an amazing , passionate heart , loving relationship .

And in this short video today , I want to talk about the three ways in which you can quickly and fast switch from masculine into feminine energy .

You see the kind of women I work with are , you know , really busy women , really smart women who have their careers in place and you know , they occupy uh big positions in banks and you know , their CEO S and of course , these women , you know , because they run plan lead , organize so much in their careers .

They are a lot in their masculine energy .

And so all of these clients of mine , they have the same challenge , the same question .

They understand feminine energy so well , intellectually .

And yet when it comes to applying that feminine energy in their dating life in their relationships , they have a hard time switching into that energy .

So that is why I am here today to act .

Exactly .

Address how you can quickly and fast switch from being in your masculine energy into your feminine energy .

And ladies , before I give you those three ways , I really want you to know that this is a universal problem for us .

Smart successful women .

I face it too .

So I run a super successful company that helps smart women like you find and keep amazing love in their lives .

And yet when I run my business , I run it in masculine energy .

You see , I plan lead , organize , do stuff and then when hubby comes back home in the evening , sometimes I do find it challenging to relax into my feminine .

So I really get your challenge .

I really get your issue .

You know , if you're single , you might be struggling with bringing your femininity into your dates .

If you are in a relationship and you are married , you might be struggling with really relaxing and letting go and calming down when your man comes over or you know , he's back from work and you're still finding yourself being in that uh work mode and masculine mode .

So I really get it .

The challenge is real .

And here are three ways .

Of course , there are many , many , many ways .

But since this is a quick mini training , mini video , three ways to effectively switch from your masculine into your feminine .

OK .

So tip number one , tip number one is have a charm or a symbolic item with you that reminds you that it is now time to say bye bye to masculine and say hello to feminine .

So , what I do is I have my little bracelets .

Ok .

So I love wearing bracelets and I have my business bracelet , which is my copper bracelet .

And then I have my beautiful pearl bracelet .

And before hubby comes over at night or in the evening from his work , what I do is I'm shutting off the laptop and I'm putting on my pearl bracelet and I'm literally giving my brain a signal .

It's time to relax .

Let go be in your feminine .

You don't have to be a boss lady anymore .

You don't have to be a CEO anymore .

You can just be a woman relaxed and welcome your man home and be a , a pleasant feminine safe place for him to come to .

And while this may seem very simple , what this does is that our brain starts to associate femininity and the signal of feminine energy with that particular object .

So it's almost like your brain gets that signal , time to let go , time to relax , time to get into my feminine energy .

Ok ?

So really carry an object with you maybe in your purse .

You know , when you leave the office , when you leave work , put that thing on and allow yourself to be in your feminine and , and , and , and keep touching that object .

So sometimes you will see that your head is still running in your , in your car and driving to the date and your head is still , you know , full of thought .

It's ok .

Just you know , keep coming back to that bracelet , keep touching something , keep touching that object that reminds you it's time to let go .

The day is over .

I can , you know , stop being in my strong elements .

I can actually just relax and surrender and be in my feminine energy .

Ok .

LA says , does it matter left or right ?

No , it doesn't .

Whatever feels good to you .

And it could also be a necklace you could play with anything that reminds you that the day is over .

It's time to let go relax and be in my feminine and I don't have to bleed and I don't have to be in the forefront of everything .

OK ?

Now tip number two on how to switch from your masculine to your feminine ladies .

Slow down , slow down , slow , how you talk , slow down , how you talk , slow down , how you walk .

You see feminine energy is all about the process oriented energy .

It's not about going to a coffee shop and quickly ordering your coffee and quickly drinking that coffee .

It's about going to the coffee shop , smelling the smell of the coffee beans , noticing who's around you giving them a nice smile .

And then when you collect your coffee after deciding what flavor you want , enjoying the smell , enjoying the flavors and really slowing down to enjoy the moment .

Now , if this annoys you and trust me it will annoy me too .

It , it used to annoy me too .

Um When I was just starting this work , I was like , who the hell has so much time ?

But that is feminine energy .

Right .

It's about having all the time in the world .

It's about really slowing down and enjoying the beauty of the moment .

Right .

So when we're in our masculine and we're running our businesses and we're doing like kick ass work .

Of course , we have to do things fast and there's time pressure and there's so many tasks to be done and everything has to go suck , suck , suck on time .

However , feminine is the opposite .

Feminine is all about deeply going down into the beauty of this moment , this present moment and really feeling it and living it and the way to do that is to really slow down , really slow down .

And when you can slow down on your day and you can slow down , you know , I even tell women who are married and in relationships , you know , when you , when you come back home from work , take time , take time to cook the meals , you know , with your man and really enjoy and love .

You know , you can , you can cook that meal like in a hurry and just like put everything together in a pan and get done with , with it and put it on the table or you can actually laugh through , connect with your man , you know , chop things together , cook that meal together .

So really the bottom line here is to take time and to slow down and to really enjoy the presence in the moment .

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And as a woman , each and every one of us , each and every one of you has that power to create that experience when you're around a man , simply by choosing to slow down in the moment .

And the third and the last step for today , listen more than you speak .

So when we're in our masculine , you know , we're all about this energy of sharing our thoughts , sharing our opinions .

And you know , we have a lot to say , however , feminine energy is an energy that can create safety for those around it by simply listening and being present .

And so a lot of the times I tell my clients who are , as I said , you know , strong ambitious women , they have a lot going on when you go on your dates or you're coming back home to your man , you wanna listen more .

So just really practice listening actively versus speaking a lot .

Yeah , and believe it or not , when you really start listening , your own mind , mind will calm down , your whole energetic aura will calm down and the man in front of you , whether he's a date or your husband , he's actually gonna feel heard .

And that is going to create an amazing moment of connection between the two of you .

So those are my three tips , easily given , but hard to practice in the moment .

So remember the gold lies in the practice of this knowledge , not just in the knowing of this knowledge .

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Bye everyone .

Enjoy being in your feminine .