A simple guide on how to be the best kisser kissing somebody for the first time is always an exciting and nerve wracking moment .
How should you initiate it ?
What if the person doesn't want to kiss you back ?
What should you do to be a good kisser ?
Don't worry today , we're going to answer all of these questions .
So listen up and take notes after watching this video , you'll definitely be an unbelievable kisser .
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First things first , what hints should you give away if you want to kiss someone ?
It's usually all very subconscious and your body language should do the job for you .
The most obvious choice is to look at the person's lips briefly .
This is the main subconscious kissing signal .
Keeping your lips softly parted is another body language option to give away romantic intentions .
Not too much though , it's enough to bite your bottom lips slightly .
Those who are especially brave can try to test the waters beforehand if you're on a date with a girl quickly and gently kiss her hand as you greet her .
If you're on a date with a guy , plant a kiss on his cheek , you'll instantly see how the person feels about it as the date goes on .
You can decide whether it would be appropriate to kiss your date .
Goodbye or if it's better to take it slowly .
If you're feeling even braver , you can ask for a kiss directly , be respectful and choose your words wisely .
For example , I'm sorry if I'm being too forward , but may I kiss you ?
This is the best option .
If you're still in doubt , your date will probably appreciate you asking for their consent before getting a bit more intimate .
Now that we found out how to initiate the kiss .
Let's move on to the basic kissing techniques .
First and foremost , you should take care of your lips .
Chapped lips are never a good look .
Don't forget about your breath either if it feels a little stale , use breath mince or a spray to freshen up , begin with a few soft and gentle kisses , no tongue or teeth .
There's no need for that , especially if you are kissing somebody for the very first time .
You are just getting to know each other in this way and slow and gentle kisses will give both of you a chance to stop .
If anything seems uncomfortable or wrong .
If your feelings are mutual , your kiss will progress naturally .
Try to swallow excess saliva as sloppy kisses aren't romantic as your kiss continues .
You can go with a locked lips technique , which is also a great gateway for future French kissing .
To put it simply for the locked lips technique .
You should stack your lips so that your partner's lower lip is below your lower lip and their upper lip is below your upper lip .
At this point , you can start to use your hands more as well .
Putting your hands around your partner's waist , on their shoulders or on the sides of their face are just a couple of possible choices .
Go with your instincts and feelings , but be considerate .
You should both feel comfortable about what's going on between the two of you .
If your partner doesn't mind the locked lips technique , you can test using your tongue after some time , try lightly running the tip of it over your partner's lower lip and see how they respond .
If your partner presses in closer to you or even returns the gesture , that's a good sign .
As you increase the intensity of the kiss , you can also go for French kissing .
Although this is usually more appropriate for couples who have been together for some time .
When French kissing , you should sweep your tongue along the inside of your partner's lower lip .
As always , it's advisable to begin slowly and gently and increase the intensity of your partner responds .
Well , if everything's going well , all you have to do is slide the tip of your tongue inside your partner's mouth and gently move it against the tip of their tongue .
However , if it's your first kiss , stay away from this technique , try something lighter .
Instead , the final cherry on top when it comes to kissing techniques is using your teeth .
This adds an unexpected element to a kiss .
When your lips are locked , simply place your teeth over your partner's lower lip and gently pull back .
Keep the pressure as light as possible and don't use this trick frequently .
It should be an occasional gesture , not a constant thing .
And that's all the basic kissing techniques for you .
You can mix them up or stick to the one you prefer the most .
Kissing is purely individual and it can be anything you want as long as you are both feeling it , all of this advice is helpful .
But what if it's your first kiss ?
How can you make this moment memorable and amazing ?
Most importantly , calm down , take a deep breath .
Everything's going to be just fine if you're truly in love with your partner and they're in love with you , your skillfulness won't matter too much .
Everyone starts at the beginning and you can grow and build intimacy together , which will make your connection even stronger .
Don't rush the moment your first kiss happens only once unless the energy between you is electric and you feel like if you don't kiss the person , you'll regret it for the rest of your life .
Don't do it .
It's always cool .
To have a romantic first kiss story .
If you're feeling shy , let your partner lead the way .
There's nothing wrong with it quite the opposite .
This approach will only help you learn everything more quickly .
According to specialist , a great kiss has a drug like effect .
That's because our lips are the most exposed erogenous zone and have 12 cranial nerves to shoot impulses into our brain .
And this chemical cocktail can lead to a feeling of being high .
Still there have to be some other kissing tricks out there that can make you a better kisser .
And trick number one is educating yourself about other erogenous zone .
Yes , we've learned that lips are among them .
However , they're not the only erogenous zone in that general area , the neck ear lobes , shoulders , fingertips .
The list is quite long , combining the effects of a couple of them will certainly upgrade your kissing game .
Another important thing is to be honest , you can't become a better kisser if you don't progress , if something is wrong , tell your partner about it and let them do the same for you and don't take it personally , let it be a part of the learning experience .
Paying more attention to your partner is also one of the keys to being a good kisser .
Everyone has their own set of preferences .
And if you know and follow them , you'll definitely be the best for your partner .
And this is exactly why it's important to talk it over your girlfriend or boyfriend can't read your thoughts .
So leave little hints or tell them everything directly and last but not least give bad kissers a chance .
Kissing is a skill that can be improved .
All you have to do is teach the person if you really have feelings for somebody , turning them down just because they aren't as good a kisser as you thought isn't the best choice .
They may be not so good now , but after some time they'll be amazing and you'll lose your chance to be with someone you love after all practice makes perfect .
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