I feel very anxious to open up with people .
Whenever I meet someone , I feel uncomfortable and I just run away .
Is it some mental issue or I don't fit in the society ?
What do I do ?
So you are overly anxious about meeting people interacting with people .
You have heard of a word called yoga .
When I say yoga , you're immediately thinking of twisting yourself .
No , the word yoga means union .
Union means see in your perception of life , there is you and there is the world .
So it is you versus the universe .
Actually , you versus the universe is a bad competition to get into .
Do you have any chance of winning this ?
You get into competition with the universe .
Is there a chance to win this competition ?
No , you don't compete with the universe .
So we found a way called yoga .
Yoga means union .
That means consciously you obliterate the boundaries of your individuality .
So there is no such thing as you and universe .
It feels like one .
You need to do a little bit of yoga .
Otherwise your mind will get twisted out with all kinds of ideas , emotions and opinions .
If you open it up a little bit .
If you obliterate your boundaries of individuality , it's very easy because when you sit here , you see this person as a part of yourself , you have no nonsense about this one .
Whether it's a man or a woman or a child or an animal , you have no problem with everything .
You will communicate absolutely because you have opened up your boundaries .
If you have concretize your boundaries , this is me , this is me .
Then with this , you will always have a problem .
If it's a man , it's one kind of problem .
If it's a woman , another kind of problem , it's an animal , other kind of problem .
I will tell you this may sound uh I have been telling people whether , whether you are at complete ease with life or not , how to find out .
Somebody asked me recently , I said we can give you a cobra test .
Cobra test means right from my childhood , I have been in the jungles of western gods in the wild .
Many of these animals , particularly if they are venomous , their way of perceiving life is through the chemistry .
They are looking at your chemistry .
If if you show a little bit of anxiety , they will go for you .
Otherwise they won't .
So if you can just pick up a cobra like this , not by holding it by its head and all that simply like this .
And if he is not disturbed , that means you're at ease .
If he goes for you , you are not at ease .
A corporate test .
I'm putting some people through corporate test just to check if they're really at ease .
I can go and pick up a cobra any time he just comes to me .
Of course , she's asking if they're alive .
See , when I lived in jungles by myself .
No , outside support .
The only technological equipment I have is a HMT watch .
And no phone , no torch , no , nothing in the jungle by yourself and food .
So people always wondered , how did they survive for weeks ?
Well , I drank up a lot of honey .
Honey beehives are there .
Beehives are always built on that branch of the tree where a bear can , cannot get .
Western gods is full of slot bears .
They will go there and drink up the honey .
So the bees will build it in such a branch where if the , if the bear goes there , the branch will break because of its weight .
So now I slowly creep up .
I always kept a little extra tube on my petrol tube .
In my motorcycle .
Just 14 to 18 inches long plastic tube .
I will go stick it into the higher and just drink up half a liter to one liter of honey .
Just keeps me going for the day .
But the bees think I'm just one more big bee .
If you show little anxiety , they will bite you .
If 8 10 of them bite you in your face , you will suffocate to death .
If they bite you inside your mouth , even one will do it will kill you .
But I always drank honey and I survived .
They never ever bit me because they are looking at your chemistry .
So it's time you work upon bringing yourself to ease , not just with other people , just with life .
The life that you are must be at ease .
If you are not at ease , you will never realize your full potential above all .
See , in every human being , there is a certain genius , but 99% of the people live and die without ever opening up the genius within themselves .
If it has to open up , if the true potential within you have to open up , your life should come to ease .
There is a whole science and technology called yoga , not just twisting and turning , approaching how to handle your body , how to handle your chemistry , how to handle your energies , how to handle your mental fluctuations .
If you bring this to a certain level , you are at ease when you are at ease .
If there is this person , that person , animal devil , whoever comes , you're at ease , you being at ease is most important .
Otherwise you will not experience life the way it is in agitation , everything is distorted .